Replace masturbation with sex for bigger loads and you’ll see first hand that this tactic actually does work.
Especially if you’ve been a daily masturbator up until this point.
As a matter of fact…
If you make it a rule to only ejaculate when in the company of another warm body, your ejaculate will likely double or even triple in size.
This will happen for several reasons, the most obvious of which is, you won’t be releasing the motherload so frequently.
But you’ll also be exposing yourself to her pheromones, which has been proven to enhance the ejaculatory response in human males.
In 2009 paper tiled A dual physiological character for sexual function: libido and sexual pheromones (1)…
The authors wrote this…
In conclusion, ejaculation is a dual cerebral process with arousal sensation (hormonally modulated) and libido perception (pheromonally modulated).
So…
When you have real sex with a real human, the hormones and the pheromones both fund the ejaculatory response.
But when you go solo, the hormones are obviously there, but the pheromones drop out…
Along with the moans, the groans and the skin on skin contact that clearly have a major impact on the intensity of the ejaculation.
Other studies have shown that exposure to another class of pheromones called copulins….
Which are emitted from her vagina in high volume during sex also have a strong impact on human males.
Quote:
Men exposed to copulins exhibit an increase in testosterone and are inhibited in discriminating the attractiveness of women’s faces (2).
Put in plain english…
Copulin exposure increased testosterone, which made the men so horny they were even attracted to the homely chicks.
So there you have it.
Now here’s David with a more detailed look at the subject.
Replace Masturbation With Sex For Bigger Loads
Your sexual pleasure is determined by a lot of different factors. Among them is the amount of semen you ejaculate when you orgasm.
This fact has caused many men to pursue ways to maximize their semen output.
Fortunately, from pills and supplements to edging and other techniques, there are many ways to accomplish this goal.
However, when attempting to “pump up the volume” in the bedroom, too few men take the time to properly examine their masturbation practices.
As we’ll see in this article, replacing masturbation with sex may be all it takes to start seeing a significant difference in your ejaculatory experience.
Masturbation is Natural (to a Point)
By age 13, the vast majority of us men had discovered the magic of masturbation.
For the older among us, this might have been facilitated by the discovery of some Playboys or other magazines.
Younger men, however, will attribute their sexual awakening to the vast amount of pornography available on the internet.
In our early years, masturbation was an excellent way for us to discover more about how our bodies worked.
Those frequent jack-off sessions also helped us prepare for the “big game,” giving us a physical and mental leg up when it came time to lose our virginity.
However, while it is natural, it’s important to remember that masturbation is not (and never was) a substitute for sex.
How Masturbation Really Affects You
Both sex and masturbation lead to the same result, but they are not the same.
You might think of the latter as grabbing a slice of pizza for lunch, while the former is more akin to having a long, romantic dinner with your partner.
Sure, both will satisfy your hunger, but one is far more healthy, more prolonged, and will yield a more satisfying result.
You see, both your mind and your body know the difference between masturbation and sex.
When you masturbate, your body gives you only the “minimal” sexual experience.
Since it doesn’t typically involve teasing or foreplay, and there’s no human connection to the event, you get a few quick shots of dopamine and a quick, pleasurable release, but not much else.
Though masturbation can indeed relax you, help you sleep, and force your brain to release endorphins and oxytocin…
Too much of it can cause stress and ultimately handicap your sex life in a number of ways.
We’ll take a look at some of them below.
Masturbation teaches your body to react too quickly
The goal of masturbation is to come, and many men have no problem rushing to that result.
Unfortunately, this can sometimes train your body to react much faster to sexual stimuli.
While not akin to premature ejaculation per se, many men find it harder to hold back during actual sex once they become so used to “going for the gold” once the finish line is in sight.
Masturbation siphons semen
If you’re attempting to produce larger and more pleasurable ejaculations, frequent masturbation is only going to hinder the process.
In a way, it would be like trying to save up money for a new Xbox, but constantly taking $10 or $20 out of your account to go to the arcade.
Maximizing semen volume takes time. Masturbation is like pressing the pause button.
Masturbation messes with your head
Sex is as much a mental game as it is a physical one.
So, once you start throwing dopamine and endorphins (which are highly addictive) into the picture, you can start causing problems in how your body reacts to sexual stimuli.
Porn addiction, for instance, can cause men to favor masturbation over sex.
This not only hurts relationships, but will never allow for those porn star ejaculations you crave.
How Real Sex Differs From Masturbation
During actual sex, your mind and body are engaged in countless different ways.
Where masturbation is composed of merely stimuli (imagination, pornography) and stimulation, your average sexual experience includes varying levels of excitement, teasing, kissing, and tons of skin-to-skin contact.
Most importantly, where the average masturbation session is straight and to the point, the arousal accompanying sex can start hours before the actual act occurs.
Below, I’ll outline what this difference means for you, your body, and your partner.
Real sex kicks your semen production into high gear
From the first inkling that you might get lucky through the kiss, foreplay, and final ejaculation, your body remains aroused to some degree.
And while your body typically has a small amount of semen ready to go at all times, it is during arousal that your epididymis, prostate, and other seminal glands start really producing your ejaculatory fluids.
With sex, by the time you reach the final event, you’ll be packing a much heavier load.
Your body reacts differently to a physical partner
From pheromone exposure and skin-on-skin contact to all the sights, smells, and tastes of another person, actual sex lights up your body’s ejaculatory response mechanism in ways masturbation just can’t.
This includes boosting those happy chemicals we talked about (Oxytocin and Dopamine), but it also means ramping up your overall excitement for a more impressive grande finale.
Your body wants to make babies
As pleasurable as sex is, your sex organs are much more focused on their primary job than making you feel awesome.
As with women, your penis and testicles are most concerned with making a little version of you.
Moreover, all the factors we mentioned above (pheromones, skin contact, etc.) help signal your body that this isn’t just another test run.
So regardless of your procreational intentions, being with another person will always result in an ejaculation that is truly worthy of carrying forth your mighty sperm.
Replace Masturbation With Sex For Bigger Loads (Putting it into Practice)
Though it’s easy to tell a man to “masturbate less and have sex more often,” this is typically easier said than done.
For instance, not every man is in a relationship, making masturbation his only major outlet for sexual fulfillment.
Of course, even those men who aren’t in relationships might be too busy or lack enough comfort with their partner to engage in more regular sex.
However, if you want to maximize the size of your loads, you need to be serious about your sex life.
This includes the sex you have with yourself and with other people. If you must masturbate, try doing it without pornography.
This will help the experience last longer, avoid dopamine burnout, and give you more control over the entire experience.
Also, try to limit your sessions, so that they’re at least four days apart. This is the time it takes for you to reach optimal semen levels.
If you are in a relationship, talk to your partner about your goals.
Most women will respond very positively if you tell them that you want to have better, more fulfilling, and more satisfying sex.
Remember, it takes two to tango.
If you want the “dance” to end with a standing ovation, you need to keep your partner involved at every step.
References:
1: Ion Motofei, Str. Tarnita, Nr. 14, Sect. 3, Bucharest, Romania (033045)
2: Effect of Copulins on Rating of Female Attractiveness, Mate-Guarding, and Self- Perceived Sexual Desirability
